Easy Like Sunday Morning… or Afternoon

Nik and I got up late in the afternoon and decided to go to the Canal. We decided to take Chaz (or “JackAss Billy Goat” as I like to call him) with us on our little escapade. It was pretty hot out, so we took Chaz (JABG) his own water supply.

I’ve never seen this dog get tired…he’s usually a bundle of energy. But after about a mile, he sat in the shade and wouldn’t walk anymore. So we carried him, then sat down and took some pics.

Then it was off to do what Chaz is good at… namely peeing on things.

Now, Nik and I just acted inconspicious. We’re so vanilla.

Nik, just kills me how closeted he is… .

Then of course we took more pics… you can see all of them here.

All in all… a very beautiful day.

The Little Things

For a transperson (or at least THIS transperson) it’s the little things that make me smile, and give me pause.

This was one:

To most it’s no big deal. But for me, it always brings a smile to my face. Then again, I’m easy.

At Times, Being Queer Is A Blessing… My Chosen Family

Three people in my life, are family to me… but they’re not! Confused? Most of the readers of this blog aren’t, because they know the isolation and the rejection that most GLBT people feel at some point in their queer experience. If you don’t have accepting people in your life, you find and connect with others that do accept and love you. With that explanation I’d like to introduce you to my chosen family.

Ethan St. Pierre

My chosen brother, Ethan has been through just about every trial I’ve gone through. He truly is the best friend I’ve ever had. He is my rock, my fellow activist, and the person who I trust more than anyone else in the world. He’s proven his love for me in action, and words. I’m grateful that he’s a part of my family.

Jennifer Perdue aka “Peg Leg Hooker”

This bitch has met Ron Jeremy in his hotel room, trolloped with me through graveyards and abandoned insane asylums, and had midnight discussions at the IHOP at 16th and Meridian. She’s someone that’s always stood by me no matter what. We’ve gone through so much crap together, she’s seen sides of me that no one else has (or probably wants to). I could never stop being friends with Jennifer, she knows where I buried the bodies!!!!!

Aida

Aida’s my spiritual twin. We connect in a way that I’ve never connected with another human. Many times we go through quite similar phases or feelings, without knowing it! She’s actually the genesis of this post. She made a comment about me feeling like a sister. That feeling is 100 percent mutual. I don’t know what connects us, but I trust in it 100 percent.

Through the years, I’ve had quite a few people come and go in my life. These three people have been there solidly for me. Ethan, Jennifer, and Aida, I love you. You ARE my family. I’m blessed to have you in my life.

P.S. In a bit of synchronicity, I had my mp3 player on random and a song that came on fit my feelings perfectly.